Skip to content

How do I ask my hookup to hang out?

If you’re interested in spending more time with your hookup outside of the casual encounters, it’s perfectly acceptable to express your desire to hang out. Here are some steps to consider when asking your hookup to hang out:

1. Choose the right timing: Find a suitable moment when you both have some free time and are relaxed. It’s best to bring up the topic when you’re already engaged in a conversation or texting.

2. Be direct and honest: Clearly express your interest in hanging out and spending more time together. You can say something like, “I’ve really enjoyed our time together, and I’d love to hang out outside of our usual encounters. Would you be interested in grabbing coffee or doing something fun together?”

3. Suggest specific plans: Have a couple of ideas in mind for activities you can do together. It could be going for a walk, seeing a movie, trying out a new restaurant, or engaging in a shared interest. Suggest one or two options to give your hookup an idea of what you have in mind.

4. Respect their response: Be prepared for the possibility that your hookup may not be interested in pursuing a deeper connection or hanging out outside of the casual encounters. Respect their decision and don’t pressure them if they decline. It’s important to maintain open communication and boundaries.

Remember, clear and open communication is key in any relationship, even if it’s a casual one. Be respectful of each other’s feelings and boundaries, and be prepared for the possibility that your hookup may have different expectations or desires.